I don’t want it. I don’t approve of it, sir. I don’t want a sterilize operation…. Let me go home, see if I get along all right. Have mercy on me and let me do that..
— A woman pleading with the eugenics board, 1945. (Winston-Salem Journal)
North Carolina made the national news this week. It wasn’t good news. It was about the eugenics program that had gone on for many years in NC. What is eugenics? It’s the science of improving a breed. So we breed out the less desirable people. It’s simply applied Darwinism. But when we play God it doesn’t turn out too well.
“They were wives and daughters. Sisters. Unwed mothers. Children. Even a 10-year-old boy. Some were blind or mentally retarded. Toward the end they were mostly black and poor. North Carolina sterilized them all, more than 7,600 people. For more than 40 years North Carolina ran one of the nation’s largest and most aggressive sterilization programs. It expanded after World War II, even as most other states pulled back in light of the horrors of Hitler’s Germany. Contrary to common belief, many of the thousands marked for sterilization were ordinary citizens, many of them young women guilty of engaging in premarital sex.” (W-S Journal)
So how could this happen?
It started with a conversation. An internal conversation that became external.
“I thank God that I’m not like other people.” That’s how that internal conversation could be framed in Biblical words, in Jesus’ words. We use words to express our thoughts. And we often use them to express the idea, not in these words perhaps, but what are saying is: “Isn’t humanity lucky to have someone like me! Wouldn’t it be great if everyone was like me.” Maybe we aren’t into eugenics, but we can have attitudes that are similar.
We make assumption and draw conclusions on incomplete information and our information is always incomplete! At least to some degree. God alone has the full picture and has the true right to judge. So we ought to give the benefit of the doubt and be gracious. Remember the story of the man on the subway in New York with his four children? The kids were bouncing off the walls! A fellow passenger observing this had the same conclusion that we’d probably have: What a poor parent this fellow is! The other part of that is: What a great parent I am! Or at least would be. So he spoke to the father who told him, “I’m sorry, we’ve just come from the hospital where their mom died. They are upset.” Be slow to speak. It’s a powerful force for healing or pain.
We forget the gospel and the fact that we are sinners all. The ground around the cross is level. Even when someone has failed, we have failed often also. Remember Jesus’ story about the man who was forgiven millions but choked his fellow servant who owed him pennies? Do we want to be that person?
2. The internal conversation goes external: “Isn’t it great that we aren’t like other people!” Gossip and slander.
Slander is when we lie about someone. Gossip can be true, but its unnecessary talk. It does not love it’s neighbor but rather exposes him or her to others who may be very uncharitable toward them.
We’ve all gossiped, and if you haven’t forgive me and congratulations. There is a deep fellowship in gossip. We feel close to someone when we share secrets. But it isn’t a good or wholesome closeness. Like our text says: It doesn’t bring about the righteous life that God desires for us. We ought to be about protecting others when they are absent.
So: If you think it might be gossip, it probably is: Quick to listen SLOW to speak!!
REMEMBER: GOSSIP IS CONFESSING OTHERS SINS AND MY RIGHTEOUSNESS, THE GOSPEL IS CONFESSING MY SIN AND CHRIST RIGHTEOUNESS.
Proverbs 10:11 The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life…
You can drink from a fountain springing up from the earth. Its pure and clean as opposed to something like stagnant swamp water. One brings life and the other death. God wants our words to give life.
Jesus said we speak out of the abundance or our hearts. Your speech will show your heart.
It’s the righteous who do this. And who are the righteous? Is it those who say: God I thank you that I’m not like other people, or is it this internal conversation: God have mercy on me a sinner? We know which one it is. Remember what Gospel means vs. Gossip! They say folks who quit smoking often gain weight because they replace the smoking with eating. So we need to replace gossip with the gospel. The one who comes in need to Jesus and abides in Him because he or she has no righteousness of their own. How hard it is to criticize others when on our knees crying for mercy.
Prov. 12:18 The tongue of the wise brings healing…The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom. Its knowing who we are and who God is that keeps our tongue an instrument of blessing rather than cursing.
How did Jesus enemies get him on that cross? He was not a victim. He said no one takes his life from him but he lays it down voluntarily. Yet in one sense he was a victim of words like those folks who were forcibly sterilized. An Internal conversation. He was one evening having at a dinner party in the home of Simon the Pharisee. A woman was there who had let her hair down. She was a prostitute. Think of the Middle East today and women keeping their hair covered. But this woman washed Jesus feet with her tears and wiped them with her hair! Simon had this inner conversation: If this man were a prophet (and he obviously isn’t!) he would know what kind of woman is touching him!
A shared conversation. From that point on they began to plot how to kill him.
And more words: crucify Him, crucify Him!
May the Lord help us to use our words with wisdom and love for God and neighbor.